HELP! I think my neighbor is ruining my son..?

My 4 year old son started Pre-K this year and we had him fully potty trained about 3 months before school started. Well, he has on several occasions pooped in his pants at school. The school will not change him if it is pooh, so I have to go to the school and change him. I'm not sure if he does it to see me, or if he is embarred to ask to, or what is going on. When I ask him why he does it, he says "i dont know", and trust me I have tried everything that I know to get him to tell me. Anyway, my neighbor said to give him prizes when he doesnt have an accident, she said thats what her daugters dr. told her to do. Her daughter has slight autism, so i dont know if that changes things(discipline, teaching, etc.)... She has taken it upon herself to meet us at the bus(same bus stop) and give him a prize for about the last month. I was not real thrilled about this, cause i didnt want my son to know that anyone else knew about the accidents incase its an embarrment issue. I should have said something earlier, but it seemed to be working and it really made my son happy to get a little prize when he got off the bus. Last week, she started cutting back, like instead of everyday, she would meet us every 2 days. and this week shes said she wont meet us at all. when she cut back last week, he started pooping in his pants again. So, what do i do now? i really need some advice. ANY HELPFUL suggestions would really be appreciated!!

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In 10 year relationship was going great now kinda sucky should i give up or hang in there?

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Our kid is 12 and we're not rich. Braces?

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How do I get past the shame & make this a more positive experience?

make a list of the things you like about yourself and good things you do/have done for others. turn to God, ask for help with this. ask him to show you what to do with yourself, where to go to meet friends, where to volunteer........it won't be good for you to spend too much time home alone with nothing to do. let me share a profound revelation God gave to me about 5 years ago. #1. Use your talents, that's what they are for. #2. Help others and help will come to you. #3. GOD WILL make a way. #4. Be patient and wait for your blessings. Since then I have turned to these many times for encouragement. Save them, ask God to help you be where you should be. Good luck-you're not crazy or useless or anything like that, you are a beautiful and unique person who can take her experiences to offer help to others.